Thursday, April 14, 2011

Oh So Tiny


On August 29th I received a call, had I ever had a child with a tracheotomy? As a matter of fact no. They had a 10 year old with a tracheotomy that needs a temporary placement until another foster family gets back from vacation. She was in the hospital because they had no one to take her and was I willing to learn? Sure why not. I went to the hospital and met the little girl. The nurses showed me how to take care of the trach and what medical equipment I would take with us. Then the DHS worker came to meet me. He was so happy that she could go to a home he told me he owed me one. OK I want a baby, the next one you have to place call me. He said," Really"? Yep! He told me to follow him so I did right into the NICU. There in an incubator was the smallest baby I had ever seen. He weighed 2lb 8oz and was 12" long and was a week old. It was hard to see his face due to all the tubes but I had never seen such small hand and feet in my life. He would have fit in my purse. His nurse said he probably wouldn't be ready to go home for 3 months, he was born at 26 weeks no prenatal care and bio-mom did a lot of drugs. The worker looked at me and said do you still want him. Now that was a stupid question, he sure didn't know me to well.
The little girl stayed about 2 weeks and I didn't really hear anymore about the baby, which isn't unusual until they are ready to go home. So I was very surprised to get a call the 3rd week of October, I had to go to the hospital to learn C.P.R., apnea training, how to give him his 7 medications and  the importance of making sure he is fed 40cc of a high calorie formula every three hour around the clock. As I was leaving for the hospital I got a call from the social worker who informed me the baby could not go home, he had just stopped breathing and had to stay another week, but I was more than welcome to come take the training and hold the baby. Don't have to tell me twice I was there.
When they handed me Anthony I was afraid he would break. There was nothing to him so tiny and beautiful with a head full of blond hair and big blue eyes, he weigh a whopping 4lb 5oz. So I visited him everyday until it was time to take him home. But before we could leave they had to do a car seat test on him to see if he could breath in a sitting position. He failed so they gave him a lay down car seat that looked like an egg cut length wise in half. Weird but it worked, so homeward bound we were.
No more backward steps, it was onward and upward for me.

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